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“Teresa, David and Nicole, We are so saddened and shocked to hear of Pat's passing. When I think of the hours we all spent together at hockey rinks...Read More »
1 of 14 | Posted by: Christine - Glastonbury, CT

“Dear hockey family, We just heard of this shocking news. Our hearts and thoughts are with you all at this time. We will always remember our...Read More »
2 of 14 | Posted by: The Santaniello Family - MA

“Mr. and Mrs. O'Connor, Rita, Brian and family, My heart just breaks for all of you at this sad time. There are no words that can truly take away...Read More »
3 of 14 | Posted by: Michelle Walters Fournier - CT

“The O'Connor Family, Pat touched many lives, I had the honor of working with him at ConnMutual Life. He always made work enjoyable with his humor and...Read More »
4 of 14 | Posted by: Donna Flieger - CT

“Dear Mary, David & Family: Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. There are no words to comfort you during this very difficult...Read More »
5 of 14 | Posted by: The Saunders Family - CT

“To Teresa and the O'Connor family, I worked with Pat at MassMutual and I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. We will...Read More »
6 of 14 | Posted by: Sherrie Stewart - Springfield, MA

“Teresa, I don't really know you very well but we work together at Aetna. I just wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family in the...Read More »
7 of 14 | Posted by: Lisa LeBel - Windham, CT

“To the O'Connor family and friends, Pat was a tremendous, caring, intelligent and funny person whom we all loved to be around. Many people will...Read More »
8 of 14 | Posted by: Darrell Ponzio - Middletown, CT

“I had the privilege of working with Pat on the DMS project at MassMutual. Pat was a very nice person. My deepest condolences go out to Teresa and the...Read More »
9 of 14 | Posted by: Nekpo Brown - Springfield, MA

“Dear Teresa: I am so sorry for your loss. This is a terrible tragedy. I know you will get through this with the help of your children. I am here...Read More »
10 of 14 | Posted by: Marybeth Morin - West Hartford, CT

“To the O'Connor family my sincere sympathy. May God Bless and Comfort you. Roni Jones ”
11 of 14 | Posted by: Roni Jones - Springfield, MA

“Teresa and Family, Please accept my sincere condolences. I'd met Pat at CT Mutual a number of years ago when I'd enrolled in a martial arts class....Read More »
12 of 14 | Posted by: Lynn Gerr - Coventry, CT

“Condolences to Teresa and your children from your neighbor Paul and Nancy ”
13 of 14 | Posted by: Paul Gousse - South Windsor, CT

“Having Worked with him for a Year,Pat was the nicest guy to work with.It was a shock to hear his sudden Demise,my deepest sympathy to his Wife and...Read More »
14 of 14 | Posted by: Karthiknarayanan Mani - CT

Patrick "Paddy" O'Connor, 48, of South Windsor, loving husband of Teresa (Henriques) O'Connor, passed away suddenly on Thursday, April 19, 2012 at Manchester Memorial Hospital. Born in Hartford, the son of David and Mary (Owens) O'Connor of Manchester, he grew up in East Hartford and lived in Manchester before moving to South Windsor two years ago. He was a graduate of East Hartford High School and the Porter & Chester Institute. He was employed as a computer programmer at Mass Mutual in Springfield. He was a member of the Wapping Community Church in South Windsor. He helped with fundraisers for The Hole in the Wall Gang Fund. He enjoyed golfing, running, hiking. He recently ran in the Hartford Marathon. He was a former member of the Volunteer Hose Company #2 in East Hartford. He was a loving and devoted son, husband, father, brother and friend who enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. Patrick loved his children and he never missed a hockey game, play or dance recital. In addition to his wife and his parents, he is survived by his beloved children, Nicole and David O'Connor of South Windsor; his step children, Christopher and Lindsey Lawton of South Windsor; his siblings, Rita McCarty of Manchester, Brian O'Connor of Portsmouth, NH, Peter O'Connor of Manchester, Clare Fravel of Newington and Neil O'Connor of Manchester; his children's grandmother, Marie Pelletier of Clearwater, FL; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends, and his close companion, his dog Bruin. He was predeceased by his first wife, Susan (Pelletier) O'Connor, and her father, Gerald Pelletier. His family will receive friends for calling hours on Sunday, April 22, 2012 from 3 – 7 PM at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Road, South Windsor. Funeral services will be held on Monday, April 23, 2012 at 10 AM at the Wapping Community Church, 1790 Ellington Road, South Windsor. Burial will follow in St. Bridget Cemetery in Manchester. Memorial donations in his memory may be made to MARC, Inc. of Manchester, 352R West Middle Turnpike, Manchester, CT 06040. For online Condolences and guest book, please visit

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